Steps to make you move ahead after a breakup.

Experiencing a breakup can disheartening,especially after you and your spouse have spent a long time together. But one thing you must know "it is over' time to move ahead. below is some steps we can take to move ahead after a breakup, feel free to add your comments.  
 Do not call him. If it's because so you can tell him/her that you still have feelings for him/her, then don't. You'll only sound Desperate. You have to give him/her time and space.
  Accept the fact that it's over. Being sad about it is okay, but whether you like it or not, you two have broken up for reasons.
 Cut all your connections with him/her. And by connections, I mean everything, his/her cellphone/phone number, his/her e-mail address and some other connections you might have with him/her. Delete his/her text messages too.
 Forget everything that happened between you and him/her. This includes not talking about him/her or the break-up 24/7.Thinking about him/her or the break up will only make you want to call you ex.
 Find someone. And don't be too eager about it, love doesn't come in an instant. Also, don't just find someone just to make your ex jealous, that will be immature. Find someone who can make you happy, not someone who would only remind you of your ex. This step is optional though.
 Be busy with your studies,Work and more important things in life.
 Be Happy with your relatives and friends. Because they are the one's who sees the BEST in you. Plus it's worth a moment spending time with them.
Love Yourself but don't overdo it! Just gain the right amount of Self Confidence enough for you to love yourself and move on.
  Hope i was able to do justice to that topic ?  Comment if you have more.